Anxiety can make everyday life feel like an uphill battle. Whether it’s racing thoughts keeping you awake, panic attacks disrupting your day, or constant worry affecting your relationships, anxiety takes a real toll. While therapy remains extremely important, anxiety medication can play an important role for many people. At Therapy for Women in Philadelphia, we believe you deserve to understand all your options—without pressure to choose any particular path.

The Role of Anxiety Medication in Treatment
First and foremost, anxiety medication isn’t about numbing emotions or avoiding life’s challenges. Instead, these medications help dial down overwhelming symptoms so you can engage more fully with therapy, work, and relationships. Think of it as turning down the volume on anxiety so you can hear yourself think again.
However, medication works best as part of a comprehensive approach. Many people find that combining anxiety medication with therapy—particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT)—provides the most lasting relief. Furthermore, when anxiety symptoms become more manageable, you’re better able to learn and practice new coping strategies.
Types of Anxiety Medication
When you meet with a psychiatrist or psychiatric nurse practitioner in Philadelphia about anxiety, they’ll discuss several medication categories. Each works differently and suits different situations:
- Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) The first-line treatment for most anxiety disorders
- Serotonin-Norepinephrine Reuptake Inhibitors (SNRIs) Similar to SSRIs with additional effects
- Beta Blockers Helpful for physical anxiety symptoms
SSRIs: The First-Line Anxiety Medication
SSRIs are typically the first choice for treating anxiety disorders. Originally developed for depression, doctors discovered they work remarkably well for anxiety too. These medications help your brain use serotonin more effectively, which can reduce anxiety over time.
Common SSRIs for anxiety include:
- Lexapro (escitalopram)
- Zoloft (sertraline)
- Prozac (fluoxetine)
- Paxil (paroxetine)
Most importantly, SSRIs aren’t habit-forming and work well for various anxiety disorders. They do take time though—usually 4-6 weeks to feel the full effects. Some people notice their anxiety temporarily increases when starting, but this typically passes within the first week or two.
SNRIs: Another Daily Option
SNRIs work similarly to SSRIs but affect both serotonin and norepinephrine. For some people, this dual action provides better anxiety relief. Common SNRIs include:
- Effexor (venlafaxine)
- Cymbalta (duloxetine)
- Pristiq (desvenlafaxine)
Like SSRIs, these medications take several weeks to work fully. They’re particularly helpful if you have both anxiety and chronic pain, as they can address both conditions. However, some people find SNRIs more activating than SSRIs, so timing and dosage matter.
Beta Blockers and Other Options
Sometimes, anxiety shows up primarily as physical symptoms—racing heart, shaking hands, or sweating. Beta blockers like propranolol can help with these symptoms without affecting your mental state. They’re especially useful for performance anxiety or specific phobias.
Additionally, other medications can help anxiety:
- Buspirone: A unique anti-anxiety medication that’s not habit-forming
- Hydroxyzine: An antihistamine that can calm anxiety quickly
- Gabapentin: Sometimes used off-label for anxiety
Each option has specific benefits and considerations. Your psychiatrist or psych NP can explain which might suit your particular situation.
What to Expect When Starting Anxiety Medication
Beginning anxiety medication requires patience and communication. Here’s what typically happens:
The First Few Weeks You might feel some side effects before benefits. Common ones include nausea, headache, or temporary increased anxiety. Most side effects improve as your body adjusts. Meanwhile, keeping a symptom journal helps track changes.
Finding the Right Dose Starting low and increasing gradually helps minimize side effects. Your psychiatrist will check in regularly during this period. Furthermore, everyone’s optimal dose differs, so comparison with others isn’t helpful.
Seeing Results SSRIs and SNRIs typically take 4-6 weeks for full effects. However, some people notice subtle improvements earlier. Sleep often improves first, followed by physical symptoms, then mood and worry levels.
Ongoing Adjustments Medication management isn’t “set it and forget it.” Regular check-ins allow for dose adjustments or medication changes if needed. Your experience guides these decisions.
Common Concerns About Anxiety Medication
Let’s address questions we hear frequently:
“Will I feel like a zombie?” Proper anxiety medication shouldn’t make you feel numb or disconnected. If it does, that’s a sign to adjust your treatment. You should feel like yourself, just with less anxiety.
“What if it doesn’t work?” Not everyone responds to the first medication tried. Fortunately, many options exist. Your psychiatrist can help you try different medications or combinations until you find what works.
“Can I stop when I feel better?” Yes, but timing matters. Most people benefit from staying on medication for at least 6-12 months after feeling better. This helps prevent relapse. When you’re ready to stop, your psychiatrist will create a gradual tapering plan.
“Will anxiety medication help panic attacks?” Yes, but in different ways. SSRIs/SNRIs reduce overall anxiety and panic frequency over time. Benzodiazepines can stop a panic attack quickly but aren’t ideal for long-term use. Many people use a combination approach.
Combining Medication with Therapy
While anxiety medication can provide significant relief, combining it with therapy often yields the best results. Medication can calm symptoms enough to engage fully in therapy, where you’ll learn lasting coping strategies.
Effective therapy approaches for anxiety include cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), exposure therapy for specific phobias, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and EMDR for trauma-related anxiety. At Therapy for Women, we coordinate medication management with our therapy services. This integrated approach means your providers communicate and work together toward your goals.
Making an Informed Decision
Deciding about anxiety medication is deeply personal. Some people find it life-changing, while others prefer therapy alone or natural approaches. Many use medication temporarily while building other coping skills. All these choices are valid.
What matters is making an informed decision based on your symptom severity and how they impact daily life. Consider your previous treatment experiences, personal values and preferences, medical history and current health, and your life circumstances and support system. However, choosing to try medication doesn’t mean committing forever. You can always reassess and adjust your treatment plan.
Our Approach to Anxiety Medication
At Therapy for Women in Philadelphia, we believe in empowering you with choices. Our psychiatrist and psychiatric nurse practitioner will explain all treatment options thoroughly and discuss benefits and risks honestly. We respect your preferences completely and support whatever decision you make. Most importantly, we never pressure you toward medication. Learn more about our approach here.
Our Philadelphia and Main Line team specializes in anxiety treatment for women, understanding how anxiety presents differently across life stages. We offer both medication management and therapy, always respecting your autonomy and timeline.
Ready to explore your anxiety treatment options? Contact us today to get started. Together, we’ll find an approach that helps you feel more like yourself again—calm, capable, and in control of your choices.




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