Obsessive Compulsive Disorder can make it extremely difficult to enjoy daily life. We use Exposure Response & Prevention Therapy (ERP), CBT and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy in order to help you reduce your compulsions and behaviors and gain control over your life. It is possible to recover from OCD and we are here to help.
Get StartedMaybe you have thoughts that are scary and you feel like you have no control over them. Perhaps you feel emotionally distressed and have trouble carrying on with your day because of how much your negative thoughts consume you. Sometimes, you might even worry that you’re a bad person or that there’s something wrong with you. It might look like checking the stove, then checking it again, then sitting in the car wondering whether you really checked it. It might be replaying a conversation from last week, hunting for the moment you said something unforgivable. If any of that feels familiar, it may be time to consider OCD therapy.
OCD is a condition made of two parts that feed each other: obsessions, which are unwanted thoughts, images, or urges that show up uninvited and cause real distress, and compulsions, which are the things you do to make that distress go away.
The compulsion is what keeps it running. Checking, washing, counting, confessing, seeking reassurance, mentally reviewing an event for the hundredth time, avoiding anything that might trigger the thought. Each one works for a few minutes, which is exactly the problem, because the relief teaches your brain that the thought was a genuine emergency and the ritual is what saved you. Do that enough times and the loop tightens on its own.
People say “I’m so OCD” when they mean they like a tidy shelf. Meanwhile, OCD affects about 1 in 40 adults in the United States, according to the International OCD Foundation, and it takes the average person over 7 years to get the right diagnosis, often after collecting labels of generalized anxiety or depression along the way. It’s the main reason a specialist beats general counseling here. If you’ve been in therapy for years and nothing has touched this, that history is common and it isn’t your fault.
Get StartedIntrusive thoughts are unwanted thoughts, images, or urges that enter your mind without warning and feel disturbing or repugnant to you.
Nearly everyone has them. Research on non-clinical populations consistently finds that the vast majority of people experience intrusive thoughts with content that would horrify them if they said it aloud, including thoughts about violence, harm, and taboo sexual content. Most people notice the thought, find it strange, and move on without much of a reaction.
What separates OCD is not the thought. It’s what happens next. In OCD, the thought lands as meaningful, as a signal about who you secretly are or what you might do, and that interpretation produces panic. Then comes the effort to neutralize it: reassurance, confession, avoidance, mental argument, checking your own body for a reaction to see whether the thought is true.
Intrusive thoughts are not your fault, and they do not indicate that you want to act on them. They often go against your values, which is they they can feel so scary. But the horror you feel is evidence that the thought is the opposite of what you want, which is precisely why OCD chose it.
Not officially. When the DSM-5 was published, OCD was moved out of the anxiety disorders chapter and into a new category called Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders, alongside body dysmorphic disorder, hoarding disorder, trichotillomania, and excoriation disorder.
The reasoning was that these conditions share a mechanism that generalized anxiety doesn’t: obsessive preoccupation paired with repetitive behavior, plus similarities in how they show up and how they respond to treatment. Anxiety is present in OCD, often overwhelmingly, but anxiety isn’t the organizing feature.
This distinction can be a reason that OCD gets missed. Anxious worries usually attach to real-life concerns and shift as your circumstances shift: work, money, health, the future. OCD is stickier. It fixes on a specific fear, often feels irrational even to you, and demands something in return before it will let go. If relief only ever arrives after a ritual, and it never lasts, that pattern points toward OCD rather than generalized anxiety. It matters because the treatments are different, and standard talk therapy for anxiety can make OCD worse by supplying reassurance. OCD therapy is built to withhold it.
Get StartedResearch groups OCD symptoms into four major dimensions: 1) contamination and cleaning, 2) symmetry and ordering, 3) taboo thoughts, and 4) harm and checking.
Within those four, clinicians recognize at least 20 distinct themes, and our clinical director wrote a full guide to every one. OCD therapy works the same way across all of them, so the theme matters far less than the cycle underneath it. Our OCD therapy covers every theme, including the ones you’re afraid to say out loud.
The types we see most:
Harm OCD. Intrusive thoughts about hurting someone, usually someone you love. Terrifying, common, and not a risk indicator.
Relationship OCD. Relentless doubt about whether you love your partner, whether they love you, whether this is right. ROCD can look like a relationship problem for years before anyone recognizes the pattern.
Scrupulosity. Religious or moral OCD, where the fear is sin, blasphemy, or being a bad person, and the compulsions are prayer, confession, or moral review.
Postpartum OCD. Intrusive thoughts about harm coming to your baby, sometimes with you in the picture.
Health and somatic OCD. Not quite health anxiety. This is checking your body, googling, and seeking reassurance in a loop that never closes.
Taboo and identity themes. Intrusive thoughts about sexuality, orientation, or acts you find abhorrent.
These are among the most distressing themes and the most likely to go untreated because of shame. Nothing you tell us will surprise us.
Trichotillomania and skin picking. Body-focused repetitive behaviors that belong to the same family and respond to related treatment.
Get Matched with A TherapistPostpartum OCD usually shows up as intrusive thoughts about something terrible happening to the baby, and they feel more vivid and more urgent than intrusive thoughts at any other point in life.
New mothers describe images of dropping the baby down the stairs, of the bath, of the knife on the counter. Sometimes the thought casts them as the one causing harm. The horror that follows is total, and it’s usually accompanied by a conviction that having the thought means she’s dangerous and shouldn’t be left alone with her own child.
She is not dangerous. Postpartum OCD is well recognized, it’s common, and the distress is diagnostic rather than alarming: these thoughts are ego-dystonic, which means they clash violently with everything she wants. The tragedy is how many women hide them, because they believe disclosure will cost them their baby. It won’t, and a clinician who understands perinatal OCD will recognize what this is within minutes.
Our therapists who specialize in both OCD and perinatal mental health provide therapy for this regularly.
Get StartedTraditional talk therapy tends not to help with OCD, and can make it worse, because talking through the fear engages the rational brain and hands OCD the reassurance it’s asking for. Our OCD therapy uses Exposure and Response Prevention instead.
ERP works by separating the two halves of the loop. You approach what triggers the obsession, deliberately and gradually, and then you don’t perform the compulsion. Nothing catastrophic happens. Your nervous system learns that the alarm was false and that you can tolerate the uncertainty, and over time the thought stops carrying the charge that made it feel like an emergency.
OCD therapy here is collaborative from the start. You and your therapist build the plan together, beginning with what’s manageable and working upward. Nobody will spring anything on you, and you’ll never be asked to do something you haven’t agreed to. Going gradually isn’t only kinder, it’s more effective, because OCD tends to resist treatment that moves faster than the person can actually stay with.
We also draw on ACT to help you hold the thoughts more loosely and reconnect with what you care about, and on CBT where it’s useful for the beliefs underneath the fear.
Get StartedGabrielle Salomone, LCSW is our Clinical Director and specializes in OCD, health anxiety, phobias and body-focused repetitive behaviors (such as skin picking, hair pulling, nail biting). She is certified in Exposure and Response Prevention and sees clients at our Philadelphia offices. She is licensed in Pennsylvania and New Jersey. She has more than a decade of experience with OCD therapy.
In Gabby’s words, “OCD is often misdiagnosed or overlooked, and I love being part of the solution and supporting other clinicians at the practice. I have witnessed firsthand and through the work of countless that I have mentored how ERP can dramatically it can change someone’s life. I love getting to the end of treatment and celebrating my clients’ success.”
Partly. Family and twin studies consistently show OCD runs in families, and having a first-degree relative with OCD raises your risk. But genetics load the gun rather than fire it. Plenty of people with a family history never develop OCD, and plenty of people with OCD have no family history at all. Stress, illness, and major transitions like childbirth often trigger the first significant episode. Knowing it’s partly heritable changes nothing about the treatment, and it isn’t something you caused.
The clearest signal is the loop. If a specific fear keeps returning, if you’re doing something to neutralize it, and if the relief that follows is short-lived and then requires doing it again, that pattern is worth having assessed. A few other markers: the fear feels irrational to you even while it feels urgent, you’ve arranged parts of your life around avoiding triggers, and the whole thing takes up significant time. Only a clinician can diagnose you, and OCD is misdiagnosed often enough that it’s worth seeing someone who specializes in it rather than a generalist.
Not necessarily. Many women improve substantially with ERP alone, and we’ll never push you toward medication you don’t want.
For some people, though, symptoms are severe enough that exposures feel impossible to start, and that’s where medication can make the difference between OCD therapy that stalls and OCD therapy that works. Our in-house psychiatrist and psychiatric nurse practitioners can assess whether it makes sense for you and walk you through the options. Because they work alongside your therapist rather than across town, your treatment team stays coordinated without you having to manage it.
We treat all subtypes. Our therapists treat contamination OCD, harm OCD, relationship OCD, scrupulosity (religious and moral OCD), postpartum OCD, checking compulsions, and “pure O” presentations where the compulsions happen invisibly in your mind. We also treat trichotillomania. OCD is endlessly creative about its themes, but the underlying cycle is the same, and ERP works on all of it. Whatever your theme is, we’ve seen it before, and nothing you share will shock us.
We completely customize treatment based on your comfort level, ensuring that therapy always goes at a pace that’s comfortable for you. We like to create a hierarchy of exposures so that you are only exposed to your fears in small, gradual steps. Not only is going slowly the most comfortable way to treat OCD, but it’s also the most effective, since OCD is resistant to most forms of treatment that move too quickly or try to do too much right away.
“Treatable” is the more accurate word, and it’s a better outcome than it sounds. With ERP, obsessions lose their power and compulsions lose their grip. Most of our clients reach a point where OCD no longer makes their decisions, takes their time, or runs their relationships. An intrusive thought might still turn up occasionally, but it passes through instead of taking over. Research consistently shows most people who complete ERP experience major, lasting improvement.
Postpartum OCD often shows up as intrusive, unwanted thoughts about something bad happening to the baby, sometimes with the mother in the picture. These thoughts feel horrifying precisely because they’re the opposite of everything she wants, and that horror is actually the tell: the thoughts are ego-dystonic, meaning they clash with her true values and intentions. Having them doesn’t mean anything about her character or what she would ever do. Many new moms suffer silently out of fear of being judged or misunderstood, so please hear this: postpartum OCD is recognized, common, and very treatable, and our therapists who specialize in both OCD and perinatal mental health understand exactly what this is.
It’s very difficult to open up to others about OCD, especially if you have disturbing thoughts that you feel ashamed of. The good news is that our therapists have worked with many clients who have the same fears as you. There is nothing that will surprise us or alarm us—we know that OCD can feel shocking, embarrassing, or strange. Part of OCD treatment involves helping you understand that you are distinct from your thoughts. Just because you have thoughts that are violent or disturbing, that doesn’t mean your desires or actions reflect that.
Our counselors have a proven track record of helping individuals get control of their OCD symptoms. This is because we are trained to treat OCD and we know how to utilize specific interventions that have been shown to help with the condition. Numerous clinical trials have demonstrated that ERP can effectively treat OCD, since it enables clients to both reduce their distress and tolerate it at the same time (2).
We see clients at four offices in PA and NJ: Center City and Old City in Philadelphia, Bala Cynwyd on the Main Line, and Collingswood in South Jersey. Our therapists are also licensed in 43 states, and ERP works well over video, so OCD therapy online is a real option rather than a compromise. Click here to get matched with a therapist today!
OCD is loud, but it is also one of the most treatable conditions in mental health, and the treatment works even when the thoughts feel too shameful to say out loud. Reach out to Therapy for Women in Philadelphia and we’ll match you with an OCD therapist who gets it.
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