Imagine your trauma as a tangled ball of yarn. You know it needs to be untangled, but where do you start? Two powerful trauma therapy methods – Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Brainspotting – offer different ways to gently unravel those knots. At Therapy for Women, we offer both as a form of trauma therapy. Let’s explore how to choose between brainspotting vs. EMDR for your healing journey.

Understanding EMDR: Your GPS Through Trauma
EMDR was created by Dr. Francine Shapiro in 1987. It uses bilateral stimulation – like windshield wipers clearing away the fog of painful memories. Your therapist guides you through a proven route using rhythmic eye movements, tapping, or hand-held buzzers that activate both sides of your brain.
During sessions, your therapist becomes your travel companion. They use hand movements or a light bar to guide your eyes back and forth. While this might sound strange, there’s solid science behind it. Just as a boat needs both oars working together to move forward, these bilateral movements help your brain re-process trauma effectively.
Key Benefits of EMDR:
- Works like defragmenting your mental hard drive – reorganizing memories so they don’t overwhelm you
- Follows a structured eight-phase approach, giving you clear signposts along your healing path
- Often produces faster results than traditional talk therapy alone. Can also be more stimulating than Brainspotting
Brainspotting vs. EMDR: Different Routes to Recovery
While EMDR takes you on a structured journey, Brainspotting, developed by Dr. David Grand in 2003, works more like your body’s natural compass. Instead of continuous movement, this method helps you find specific eye positions – called brainspots – that connect to stored trauma.
Think of it as finding the right radio frequency – when you hit the spot, things just click. Your therapist works like a trusted co-pilot, following your lead while helping you navigate your emotions. This mindful attunement creates a deeply personal healing experience.
Advantages of Brainspotting:
- Sessions flow naturally, like a meandering river finding its path
- Perfect for those who find EMDR’s back-and-forth movement challenging
- Can be an alternative if you struggle with dissociation
Making Your Choice: Brainspotting vs. EMDR
Choosing between brainspotting vs. EMDR is like picking between hiking trails – both lead to the summit, but each offers a different journey. Consider these factors:
Your Personal Style Preferences:
- EMDR might suit you if you prefer clear structure and proven protocols
- Brainspotting could be your path if you like a more fluid, intuitive approach
- EMDR might suit you better if you feel “don’t feel anything” when doing Brainspotting
- Some find EMDR’s movement natural, while others prefer Brainspotting’s steady gaze
- Trust your instincts about which method feels right for you
Remember, finding the right therapist matters as much as choosing between brainspotting vs. EMDR. Many practitioners train in both methods, allowing them to adapt their approach to your needs. At Therapy for Women, we have a number of therapists who practice both. We practice EMDR therapy and Brainspotting virtually and in person. Learn more about our approach here.
In person offices
- Center City/ Logan Square, Philadelphia
- Old City, Philadelphia
- Bala Cynwyd (Main Line), Pennsylvania
- Collingswood, New Jersey
Healing from trauma takes time and patience, like tending a garden. Whether you choose EMDR’s structured pathways or Brainspotting’s intuitive approach, commit to the process and maintain open communication with your therapist. Both methods can lead to profound healing – the key is finding the approach that resonates with your personal style and needs.
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